Friday, December 24, 2010

EMPTY PLACES (A metaphor for marriages).

A few rainy days ago when Southern California was its old sunny self, my wife Buckwheat and I took a little road trip to Balboa Island in our Roadster, the idea behind the trip was to decompress after spending two months of demanding physical labor at "Youth With A Mission's" (YWAM)  training base in Kailua-Kona, Hawaii. The forty hour work weeks were tough, but soul defining causing us much to ponder during our retirement start up.
Once on the Island we parked and started walking around the Island, which was as much for exercise of body, as spirit, there is something peaceful about walking around quaint, and not so quaint beach homes. Our goal on the walk was to circumvent the Island and we talk about the important things in our life, and Hawaii's two month impact on our future, we now had new friends, challenges and impacts.
Beside our communication, we  also had a physical target, the Ferry. The Balboa Island Ferry takes both cars and pedestrians across the Balboa inlet separating the island from the peninsula. The peninsula is filled with equally beautiful homes as the island, but it has the Pacific Ocean, a pier, and a boardwalk filled Fun Zone filled with an eye-popping vistas, a Ferris Wheel, Arcades, super quick,  junk food places, good, and not so good restaurants, cheap, and not so cheap clothing stores, plus a fine display of human diversity, from beach-type people, to the street people who've excelled at poor choices, and to visitors like us.
The ferry's job this day, was, for us anyway, to take us from the tranquillity of our walk and talk , to the cheap and wacky, which all Fun Zone's hold with their collective noises, views, and bewilderment's.  Since our lives are daily crowded with the serious and the silly, we didn't see any reason to thin out the day to just the sublime. Cheap food and thrills were to be the dessert of the day.

Friday, December 10, 2010

"THE RUSSIANS ARE COMING, THE RUSSIANS ARE COMING."

This is the biggest of all Christmas’s for the Worthington family. Tuesday, December 14, at 12:00 P.M. Heather, Zhenya, Ryan and Zhenya’s mom, Raesa (Rye-e-sa)come to America for the Holidays, and Zhenya’s American citizenship oath swearing, the oath swearing will take place Thursday, December 16th at L.A. Convention Center.
Zhenya got his driving license last time they were here, as well as studied for and passed the citizenship testing, both are quite impressive. Zhenya’s mom, Raesa, is coming to America and will experience an American Christmas for the first time. In a short few weeks, Raesa will expedience Zhenya’s oath, Christmas shopping, the Holiday lights and pomp of Christmas, as well as Christmas day with 15 people.
There will be a lot of translating for Zhenya and Heather, which is very tiring, and it will all add to the craziness of 8 adults and 7 grandchildren laughing, wrapping, eating, unwrapping and enjoying the holidays. What a miracle this all is.
Plus, Buckwheat and I are back from our two month mission work for YWAM in Kona, Hawaii.